whether we are living what we want

Publicado por Patricio Varsariah el sábado, enero 9, 2016

When we live waiting for life to function the way we want things to go as we like or that others treat us like we are meriting being actually slaves of what we expect. Living with expectations makes us emotionally weak people because we expect things to happen as we want and not always going to be like. In fact, a considerable percentage of the time, life will take a different turn than expected and no choice but to accept with the greatest serenity possible. If we do not train well to release expectations and embrace what comes, we run the risk considerably, fill in depressed or anxious. Everyone chooses what they prefer as each owns his own emotional state.

There are days when we wake up and we wonder why we are with a person who does not want us or do not respect us, why are we going every day to work at a job that excites us, or why do not generally have the life we dreamed. All these questions lead us to reflect on a number of choices we have made throughout our existence and who may not have been our choices, or are roads that have chosen out of fear, lack of courage to live our dreams.

We tend to hold on to things or people we should really let go, because not bring us anything good, because they hurt us or because it is time to evolve and change. It is important to learn to let go, we hurt, but over time, we realize that sometimes you have to let go of things or people to enter fresh air in our lives. If we think carefully about our lives, sometimes we realize that we are living and choosing what makes others happy, not what makes us happy to us. There is no question of giving satisfaction to others but to be happy. Actually, people who love us, they want to see us happy, but must distinguish between what they think makes us happy and what makes us really happy.

There are a number of questions that we can do to give meaning to our lives and whether we are living what we want. Here I share with you and leave for your reflection. Consider for a moment, your life would be like in five years; if we continue in the situation where we are. Perhaps the idea that future makes you happy and do not want to change anything or perhaps, the idea that future is not something you want to live. We must reflect on whether the life we now lead us to the ideal of life dreamed we want or need to change the things we do.

Fear is paralyzing and when it comes out of our comfort zone invent any excuse to complain without doing anything to find solutions and change what bothers us. Think about what you would do if you were not afraid, what you dare, visualize that situation and do you like to live without fear, how do you feel ?. The really important thing is to fight for living life to suffer and to enjoy it, lose with dignity and dare again. Life is wonderful if you are not afraid.

Sometimes we see all of our faults, but we fail to appreciate our talents. What is the best thing you do ?, what are you passionate about? And the most important question: Do you work on it? These questions make us think about what to include and why we do not do what we like. For a moment think about what is most important in your life, what makes you really happy, and ponders if that something is in your life or not. Maybe it's time to change something or to change everything.

Each of us have a dream of children we met adult imagined. Think about what you dreamed of doing as a kid and what happened so that you are not living that dream anymore. Also, you can think about what things can you do to go slowly getting closer to your childhood dream. The opinion of others is something I always fear that we plan to change something in our life, but imagine that nobody will judge you, what would you change in your life? Like the fear of what will happen if we change, we fear what they think others. Many times we complain about our work, our boss, our schedules, our colleagues, but we do nothing to change that, by fear, by the opinions of others, not to change anything, but we do not like. We settle, not daring to risk living our lives to the fullest.

Finally, we waste much time on social networks or mobile TV, but ask yourself if you do that in case you had one month to live. Surely not, we would devote to enjoy every second of those we love, places that we like, every little detail that makes us happy. Once again I felt a huge desire to live when I found out the meaning of my life was that I wanted to give you.

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