We never have to lose the ability to do good things

Publicado por Patricio Varsariah el miércoles, noviembre 25, 2015

All we have more of a personal history marked by disappointment. Some of them hurt more than others, and even some have forced us to lose that initial innocence with which we usually come into this world. They say that even the most loving heart is tired of being hurt, but many wounds that we receive should never lose our capacity to love, to love those who really deserve it. In life, we invest time, emotions, dreams and hopes to reach certain goals. Sometimes they are just aspirations, sometimes it is invested in certain people who at some point, we may disappoint life.

When we want something with great intensity and we lose, disappointment and emptiness appears. Not only did we lose that relationship, that dream, also let go a part of ourselves. The greatest danger of disappointments is falling into helplessness. There is something that has not been adjusted to our expectations, it has not gone as we expected ... and it hurts so much so that we can generate the feeling that whatever we do, will repeat the same result. There are many times when certain failures and above all disappointments, we generated negative feelings such as anger, rage, resentment or frustration.

All that negative emotion chronically maintained over time, can change our outlook on life, people, and even about the idea that good people can still exist in the world. They say that doing good is to forget yourself to give everything for others; but it is not true. At all. Act properly, with integrity and in turn promote the welfare of those around us, is not "abandoned". Who always seeks the best for the whole, acts as the voice inside, and according to their own values. If it did, it would go against their own essences, and then, yes that would be provoking serious damage to their self-conception, their identity.

They say there are disappointments that make us open our eyes and close our hearts. It is a pain that will force us to be more cautious, but that should never lead us to lose our ability to do good, it would be madness to hate all roses because you pricked.

So, not having suffered a disappointment we will hate the rest of the world, and moreover, we will not change our philosophy of life to have experienced several, or even too many disappointments. You can dress with prudence, with stealth armor, but never falter rancor or hatred. Not worth bringing up these extremes which are our values completely break. Because when we lose our values ??we lose everything, and if you lose your ability to do good thinking it is not worth it, you'll stop being yourself. You fail to recognize you every time you look in the mirror.

Everything that happens in our life, whether good or bad, we must accept it, integrate it and move forward in the slightest way possible. If rancor store walk slowly, if we keep rabies seek revenge if we hide hatred we will stay aground and we will have completely lost our ability to do good. Generate happiness. In this life we ??are not only brief passengers on a road where people will light of hatred and resentment, they will be able to enjoy the journey with greater wisdom and integrity. We know it's not always easy to face a disappointment, but if something should not allow is that the bad behavior of others is impregnated in us to the point move. Have you believe that there are no good people, or more, that good people always end up injured.

Above all things we must try to live in the "here and now" focus on the present without generating excessive expectations about what should happen or what will happen. Let us take is the most suitable. Accept that disappointments are part of life lapse and we should learn from them. We must not let them change us into something we are not. We must understand that you can not control what others do, whether good or bad. We know who we are and what we want, and we know that doing good is part of our roots, our vital essence.

Finally believe in others until they prove us otherwise, to enable trust, we have experience, we have nobility in our hearts and deserve always find the best in people. If we approach them with past grievances, we find rejections. To focus disappointments as a renewal: it is experience and a clear example of what we do not want to repeat. Never lose the ability to do good for many times that let us down, many times you fall.

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