They say that there is lack of time, there is a lack of interest, because when people really want, dawn becomes day, Tuesday, Saturday and becomes a moment becomes opportunity. Whom much is expected, he is disappointed and suffering. The truth is that the lack of interest hurts, a lot. It goes beyond disappointment, they are cruel twinges of pain in the stomach, as if something inside us tore the soul. At the time when we are hurt, we can do nothing to alleviate that pain, then keep our sanity before abandonment and humiliation and involves enough effort.

People have obligations in the day, and we must all respect and recognize that sometimes it is not always possible to leave everything to go with someone. Understanding this is also essential. Now, they come moments when you know very well judge when in fact there is "lack of interest" and not lack of time. Actually I like people who arrive on time and not when you have time. Time is that hard sculptor who takes youth, our dreams not yet fulfilled and that pattern today. In it, we signed our obligations and we value your time, what are our priorities.

I am aware that is not always possible to allocate time as we would like. Devote more family or children instead of working so many hours. For what you value as important, there is no time, the wire or anger. The heart knows that is noble prioritize what is according to its essence, to its natural goodness. There are many parents that they miss the children when needed. There are many friends who feel the emptiness of those people who once considered soul brothers, and that once, did not arrive on time when needed. Actually, it is not "to be punctual," the question is offering reciprocity and know that there are times when we really need. And yet, not enough just to be, is trying to "be present" with authenticity, warmth and openness. Never by mere obligation.

A friend always ends for two reasons: when the self-interest displayed by someone or makes an appearance that cool breeze that brings the lack of interest. I'm sure you've also own skin experienced any of these dimensions. However, we must consider that we too can get to stop investing time and show disinterest in people than at the end, we discovered that are not significant, that do not provide anything positive.

There are 3 principles that build positive relationships where they really, time takes on real meaning, and these are: 1.-The principle of reciprocity. I spend time in one part of my essence, my identity and who enriches provides me positive emotions and learning that promote my personal growth. Reciprocity is based on knowing correspond to one who does me good, and the free and sincere obligation to give while receiving. Reciprocity is also based on the recognition. I acknowledge my family as an important pillar in my life and dedicate time because they deserve it and because I love them. No reciprocity in selfishness, they are free feelings that occur because they are part of us. It is an inner strength that not only makes us arrive in time, leads us to know "sense" when you need us.

Second principle: The principle of authenticity. What I offer is genuine. Nobody coerced me or manipulate me to let go of what I'm doing and go to him. I do it because that invisible thread that binds me to others is like an artery that drives me and guide me. Authentic people live consciously and know very well what they want, and who should be part of your life. We surround ourselves with positive real people is that at all times we will know that what they say and do is sincere, because for them there is no deception or selfishness. They know very well what they are and what they want in life. Authenticity is a value that builds positive relationships.

Finally, the third principle: The principle of freedom. No relationship, whether emotional, family or friends, can live under compulsion. If we choose to spend time someone is because we do it in complete freedom and because we wish, because so sorry. A friendship is one that allows you at all times be yourself, a good father is one who gives his son freedom to choose their way when ready. Everything is not free to be authentic feelings. When someone calls us because we need and intuit some implicit coercion or blackmail, we will never beside him willingly. We never feel real close to us who controls or subjected. You are free to choose who you want to invest your time and who does not. It's something you should judge your heart, but never feel remorse for not spending your hours or your days who does not deserve you. Life must be lived fully and with no suffering or blackmail.

The most common is that they always come on time when that person really want, need us. And we'll do that when someone we care, we sense that we should be with him before he expressed. The sincere affection needs no words or no longer enough to bring two hearts always beat at the same pace distances.