A man must live in the present and what does it matter who you were last week, if you know who you are today ?. Living means experience and the experiences measure time. Any emotion that arises from direct contact with reality implies a change: we can travel and see new models of life, find people with thoughts and habits we did not know, raise a family, lose people we thought would forever discover love and hate, etc. All this, without realizing it, we change. The truth is that life has different prices and one of them, as we know, live experiences and link them to our lifetime. There will be moments that mark us so that we will believe that have lasted longer than real and others who remember how fleeting. Therefore we say that with time change, because living has different prices and one of them is discussed.

What has to be will, in due time and at the time, because the destination is uncertain and sometimes simply the winds are not blowing in our favor and our sails are hoisted by the work despite our efforts. They say the best things are not planned, they just happen and it's better not to press time. Because really if anything should happen, it will happen anyway. And if you should not, because it will not. It is simple. So once in a while it is good not plan or expect, stop demanding reasons why continue down a path that we do not see very clear and get off the world's expectations and schedules. The fact that things are simpler than they originally we plan opens up a wide range of possibilities to enjoy life from a much more relaxed and friendly for our welfare perspective.

Time is united and fused to the experiences that we collect throughout our whole life, so that we learn both do, know and change. In fact, we are so attached while seeming to be lengthened or shortened depending on our mood and our expectations of life. Time, as they say, does not go in vain, much less if you look at what we were ten years, five months and three weeks before the present moment; because we know that, in addition, there is nothing on the year. In this sense, we often measure time in key events that have marked us and we will always remember why. Furthermore, we usually draw more negative or more positive experiences that can live as guilty of our personality changes and, even sometimes, physical. The ends will always bring the difference: true happiness not forget, but also our failures and exceedances.

Clearly, in situations in which we live extreme emotional change, because they force us to reach deep within ourselves and see ourselves as we had never before seen. We know, then, things and values ​​we did not know, feelings that we had not had before and we are required to sort out the mess from within. When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. If we went through a bad time, probably we come out of it stronger; if we are wrong, we know what we have to do it again next time; We have been happy if only we will comply with what makes us good and shy away from sadness, etc. What is certain is that we will never be the same after a new experience or to go to fulfill years time we will transform and shape our person.

Resist change, in fact, it is useless. Wanting to avoid that something has happened in our lives and want to think everything is still as long ago is of no use because the reality is that it is not. As someone once said, everything flows and everything remains. That is, our essence remains the same, but will not be the same. If we can not resist change, the only way to grow is to accept people as well. Renew and if, by some chance, we can not be faithful to our principles, create new ones to help us start again. It would be beneficial to understand that the time goes above and only we decide what to do with it and how to use it. In the same way that time changes oneself also changes people we have around and consequently influences the relationships we have in common.

Finally, it is essential to understand that accepting the change itself is as important as accepting the other, provided they do not harm us directly, in such circumstances the other person probably also need our adaptation. Why do we have to fear the changes? All life is change. Why should we fear?