There is a fundamental rule that should govern our lives and based on that pride can forget, but dignity is not lost on anyone. We can say goodbye to our pride, but we must never lose dignity by anything or anyone because then we lose ourselves, would damage our pride and our integrity. While each person has to assert his own estimation, this value is invalid if it is at the expense of others. So we need to discern those actions of others that harm our image and our dignity violated. Although it is not the presence or absence of dignity which ensures getting love or true friends, what is certain is that those relationships founded on dignity will be more genuine, free, strong and respectful, which we will find if we are not decent to our identity.

Never forget that love or affection is begging, NEVER. Have you ever felt that you were begging for crumbs of attention and affection of someone you just showed you selfishness and indifference? The answer to this question is almost certainly yes. The point is that according to how people relate to us or what vital time we meet, we will be more likely to become victims of those who need to stop underestimating fool your self-esteem. That is to say that sometimes we lose our dignity because we believe that compensates or because what is most usual, we block and we can not respond to handling complicated situations or submission.

Dignity and pride are two currencies with different faces. The message I want to convey is "not miss someone for pride, but also the dignity miss somebody." But really the line between pride and dignity is very diffuse. For that we have to keep ego at bay, as it will be too much to convert him to the dignity pride, a feeling of emptiness superiority, intolerant, harmful and unjustified. Is the dignity which reflects the ability to behave fairly and balanced with yourself ignoring or blackmail pretexts to submit us. That is, to be worthy is to respect and respect others by keeping a safe distance that allows us to balance the scales. So we must respect and uphold the dignity and not lose it for anything or anyone, because in that case we would lose ourselves at the whim of those who do not deserve us.

The importance of self-esteeming not hurt others. People who love themselves tend to be more consistent and caring in their actions than those who are not appreciated, since the first considered dreadful harm to others. That is the thought that "I behaved immorally with this person" distorts both our identity explicitly commit ourselves to resolve this situation and prevent something similar from happening again "good and positive for others." Similarly, those who are not taken into consideration find it less dissonant or commit petty acts fearful because they think less value and, therefore, do not have a good concept to feed themselves. This explains why people who take advantage of others and undermine the dignity of others usually do almost always shamelessly. In this sense I can say that there really is something that is not working as it should within them.

However, the skin grows over the wound, but the important thing is that you heal from the inside. I use this metaphor because it is very useful to get used to the idea of ​​how when someone lets us down, a part of us is torn. That is not to say that dignity makes us emerge unscathed from damage, but because we hold strong and present our identity can better handle the fact that someone leaves us, get us fired from work or to deceive us a friend . A full and certified person will be a worthy person even though the events hurt him continue walking, looking straight ahead with his high forehead because it knows and what it's worth though events or negative people want to give believe otherwise. although we are never be the same, this kind of painful situations invite us to strengthen our dignity and our personal identity. We will not see each other less affected or hurt, but our way out of the well with take less collateral damage.

However, usually when we are obliged to decide between our dignity or the lack of it, the bells of farewell or change must start ringing in your head; not least because, as I said, we can not give up our emotional health by anything or anyone.