Every relationship that we live is potentially important. Any meeting that we can make us discover many things about ourselves. Whether in our relationships with family, with our friends, casual relationships and working relationships. Any type of relationship may have an impact on us. Every relationship becomes an opportunity to see how we react to each person; how we communicate, what we feel, what it makes us upset; what behaviors we like, what we produce rage and anger, etc. All our reactions that create the links have to do with our appearance, often unconscious we do not know or even reject

The world of human relations irremediably interests us and affects us, we can not remain indifferent to this fact. We are learning to discover who we are through the eyes of others, and every person we meet during the course of our lives can bring us something different. Do you stay open to the possibility that anyone can bring you something important in your life? Depending on our openness, this will be more or less true, it is important to recognize that each person has this potential in our lives, just like us in the lives of others; be aware of this possibility and take advantage of longer dependent on each, because relationships are the mirror in which we see ourselves. The meeting of two people is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.

When we put the focus on the other person with respect to how we feel, we are losing a valuable perspective; which it is not the other person that has generated me this emotion, if you have not been I who had this reaction to his behavior, which can investigate and see where it comes from; as an opportunity to know what this has to do with my life. React it supposed to be very well aware that it is not the other person who causes anger, discomfort or sadness in me, either that generates me happiness, joy or enthusiasm. The entire repertoire of emotions are pleasant or unpleasant and the generated ourselves through the link. They are answers that we issue regarding our experience and belief system.

There are many feelings, desires, intentions; that for certain reasons we reject ashamed and full. They are parts of us that are not willing to see; and to defend the use of this projection. We project onto others what we are not willing to see us. Everything that irritates us about others leads to an understanding of ourselves. We have emotional reactions that trigger the projection, and can be both positive and negative. In positive you're reflecting on the other person with a part that you like about yourself, that you value and appreciate and which you are not aware. On the flip you are reflecting something you censures, a part of you that do not like, doing everything possible to avoid having to recognize; this entails an internal conflict that interferes with relationships. The interesting thing to recognize our projections, is to see how our attitudes and perceptions towards people and the world around us, are essentially rejected ideas that we harbor ourselves.

The relationships we say a lot about us. Where we least expect to find, it is that anyone can provide a great love, a beautiful and important learning company. We become demanding waiting for this to come to us from abroad, however, it is an internal matter. All that is significant for our lives appears when we are in a position to host it. The integrity, strength and stability no one can offer us, and it's not fair that we charge others with the responsibility. All this comes from within, and is facilitated through our relationships.

Often it happens that the very people with whom we have a relationship are the best anyone can prompt us to put all our resources into play. As frustrating as they are, maybe we need to be just the person less suited << >> usually be our best teacher or teacher.