Between what we think, what we say, what we say, what we say, what we hear, what we hear, what we understand and what we understand, there are nine chances of not understood. The longest distance between two people is a misunderstanding. Sometimes others do not understand us if we explain things a thousand times. I do not see does not mean it's bad, stupid or he is indifferent. It's just another person and has another place different from ours.

People have a natural desire to feel connected emotionally with others. In this spirit and we relate these exchanges is where the possibility of multiple interpretations arises and therefore that misunderstandings occur. This occurs as a result of interpretations are needed to communicate and that these in themselves are different and unique to each person. This generates anger, arguments and emotional breakdowns. It is natural to seek to reaffirm our feelings, opinions and beliefs, but these emotional needs should not be excessive and, of course, should not hinder the intention of reaching an understanding and promote good performances.

For this it is important to understand that in our understanding we must play with pride management, life situations, tiredness, distrust, interpretations, feelings and all kinds of emotions, beliefs and thoughts both circumstantial as you set. Correctly assemble the puzzle with this can be tricky. In fact, the hardest thing in this regard is to maintain the respect and regard yourself without offending others. So, be firm and maintain dignity while trying to undo a grievance.

We must be responsible for what they say but do not carry what others understand. Both the strength and the possibility of anger and misunderstanding is proportional to the degree of emotional involvement that we have with the people involved in communication. That is, that the more united we feel, probably more important for us is the interpretation that can make our words. Similarly, the other person will tend to also handle his words regarding the ties that bind us, expectations and interests, as well as the status of your personal situation. At this point we must not fall into the drive and, of course, we must not let that make us feel bad about those intentions are attributed but we are not real.

We must pay special attention to this because there are people living with protester automatic position and that, without eating or drinking, make us victims of the storms. You can also, for whatever reason, someone is more susceptible than usual and with our comments, words or actions can touch their nerve and do so jeopardizes the stability of communication. Consequently there are numerous factors to consider in an exchange. It is impossible to control everything, not least because we are changing and ambivalent nature and by definition and, therefore, our interpretations are the most varied.

But either way what happens in a conversation and a relationship, we must take responsibility for the part that touches us and analyze what we can improve and what we are good or what we have done well. In this sense we can not afford to be targets of foreign internal conflict or negative feelings that lead to misinterpretations. So if we find any behavior or malicious comments, we have to put in motion the machinery and provide our view of the clearest way possible.

A well-intention act, assertive and calm way, is the best way to safeguard good communication. And we transmit the message that we take our responsibility for what we say and we'll try to make the best possible way, but that interpretations are not borne of our own, but who's account makes.