The biggest difference between peace and stress

Publicado por Patricio Varsariah el lunes, octubre 30, 2017

Doubt your doubts before doubting your faith.

That is the super short version of my advice for those moments when nothing seems to go according to plan, when everything you want seems out of reach.

Yes, you just have to be where you are, with an open mind.

Forget about what you think your life is supposed to be and sincerely thank him for all that he is.

It is easier said than done, of course, especially when a tragedy occurs. And although I have faced and grown through my fair share of real tragedies, let's be honest about something: 98% of the time we create tragedy in our lives due to relatively minor incidents. Something does not go exactly as we planned, but instead of learning from experience, we go crazy and let stress become us.

My challenge for you today is to choose differently. Do not let the little things that are out of your control dominate you!

In fact, the biggest difference between peace and stress is attitude. It's about how you look at a situation and what you decide to do with it. It is to remember that there are no certainties in life; You do not know exactly what the future will bring. So, your best strategy to live is to make the best and most positive use of the present moment, even when you are disappointed ...

Especially when you are disappointed!

How disappointed would you be to have 20 years on the road and discover that you were made to appreciate and enjoy life, while all you did was to resist and doubt?

Your life, with all its ups and downs, with all its unexpected twists, shaped you for the greater good. Your life has been exactly what it had to be up to this point. Do not think you've wasted your time. Do not think that you have not arrived. He took each and every one of the intricate and confusing situations he has found to take him here, right now.

And if you have the courage to admit that you have a little fear, the ability to smile even while you cry, the nerve to ask for help when you need it and the wisdom to take it when it is offered to you, then you have everything you need right now.

You just have to believe it, so you can take the next step. Nothing is out of your reach when you realize that everything is in your head. That's what you need to remember ...

It's about letting go of fantasies, accepting reality, having faith in your trip and appreciating all the little things that are within your reach along the way.

And as you continue to travel the path of life, do everything possible to prevent anyone or anyone tempering your peace of mind. Live a life that moves you and makes you smile every day. Because he does not want to reach the end, or tomorrow, even, and realize that his life is nothing more than a collection of stressful expectations and "some days", messages and empty promises and promises.

Choose differently! Step by step every day with grace ... Go ahead and sing aloud in the car with the windows down, and dance in your living room with your family, and stay up late laughing, paint your walls the color you want and Enjoy a sweet wine and chocolate cake. Yes, and go ahead and sleep on clean white sheets, and throw spontaneous parties, paint, write poetry and read books so good that they make you lose track of time.

And just keep living and making God happy to have given life to someone who loves and appreciates the gift.

And of course, if you're struggling with some of this, you should know that you're not alone. Many of us are there with you, working hard to feel better, think more clearly and redirect our lives.

From the heart.

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