I wish things were easier. I wish there was a magic potion to indifference, to close the doors of the heart who does not want us, and practice the art of forgetting who like a stone dropped into a river and see it disappear into the depths. Say goodbye takes courage, it is an act of personal will for a vital necessity. It is closing a circle where we say to ourselves that we will no longer afford to suffer more, because who gives you only absences not deserve your presence.

There is therefore the immaculate forget that leaves no traces or scars. Because saying goodbye means sometimes having to heal many spaces, many grievances and sorrows of the soul that time does not always relieved by the simple passing of the calendar pages. Time does not heal if we do not do our part. Sometimes it is not love that is completed, but patience, that they say is holy, because it resists winds and tides and always ends up giving more than they should. Now How not offer everything for that person with whom we have built an emotional and vital link, and even a life? It is clear that it is justified to give in sometimes more than necessary, to forgive today and gone tomorrow, and hopefully a little more hope that things will improve ...

Sometimes, reality eventually falls under its own weight to open our eyes. Our heart can not erase the overnight what you feel, but when you lose patience and you start to take off one after another, all the bands that blinded him. Some say that patience is a virtue, but it is clear that this dimension can not be applied to all areas, and in addition, must have its limits. We can not spend a lifetime being patient seeing our rights are violated, our needs as beings who need reciprocity, care, affection and recognition. Love requires commitment, determination and patience ... but to some extent.

How many times in your life you've been forced to say goodbye? Actually, no matter the times when you're done, it is essential that throughout our life cycle must be broken over a link, but it causes us pain. Saying goodbye is to grow, it is to meet again allow ourselves because certain circumstances, something or someone was us away from those essences that are unshakable happiness and balance with our being.

I say goodbye because I know that you do not need me, because I'm not your priority, your empty gaps and fill me because even though I do not not say it aloud, while we said goodbye. In fact, we could say goodbye own itself does not hurt as much as contain the urge to return. Why it is there that is not only our own strength, but our dignity. Do not ever allow yourself to be weak and run behind or who do not need to know where you are. If you do, you'll be making a profound damage to yourself, to your self-esteem and in turn, you'll be offered to a person who has in his hand the key to the lock of your unhappiness. It is you who must have that key, you who must hold the reins of his life knowing at all times who is worth investing time, dreams and hopes. Saying goodbye is an act of courage and the best expression of self-love. It is necessary to assume that the act of saying goodbye, let go, involves going through a grieving process. Many people understand that far from thus decide to hold a day to day without having managed thoughts and emotions.

Saying goodbye to a person who was significant for us first requires understanding what has happened, what has created this separation. You need to accept that either we are no longer ones, or that is necessary to end a relationship that causes more suffering than happiness. Breaks links require some form of emotional release, either with words or tears. Acceptance comes every day, slowly but sure know ourselves, feeling good about ourselves because we made the right choice. Say goodbye without rancor, hatred or contempt is not always easy. By the time we are aware that we did not need, they no longer love each other or that offer us a poisoned or painful love, which we feel is helplessness and rage.

Note that all negative emotions will prevent you close that circle. It is a burden that you are storing and somehow implies that follow "bound  that person." Anger, hatred and rancor leave their mark on our character and our emotions. It makes us suspicious, and that creates even more negativity anger against ourselves. Free yourself of all, detach yourself from those who do not need you and all negative emotion anchored involving follow who hurt you somehow. All this will allow you to move with more lightness. If you accumulate every stone of the road, at the end you can not walk on your path of life. You'll be stranded / a. Free yourself. When we maintain a dysfunctional relationship, that is, where we experience suffering, disappointment and grow away from where our personal equilibrium is broken, what we do is actually away from ourselves.

Say goodbye involves a delicate return trip. You need to heal wounds, assist and pull that golden thread of your essence, to recover not only the person you were before, but also to create who you want to be now. I want to be that person who is able to say goodbye and let go, new things to come. Better things. I wish to be who he was, and although I am aware that I have lost part of my innocence, and the linked destination who left behind know that I am the architect of my future. I know I'm going to walk with renewed hopes that will not be a victim, but someone able to learn from the lived and become who I want to be.