Normally, the person who has led a disorderly life, full of ephemeral relationships and "triangular", hardly ever going to stop behaving that way. In fact, it often happens that over the years the problem is much more chronic back. With someone like that, you better not waste your time or your life. For love happens to be something healthy, to become, strictly speaking, a vice; a true perversion. The result: shattered lives, resentful people, dead hopes. Real human wrecks ... If you get stuck in a relationship, you may be missing the opportunity to live a true love. No ideal love, but yes, a relationship that will bring you more joy sadness. If you opt for that, do not blame others for your misfortunes. Remember that you are free to choose who to love.

The disappointment comes not just from infidelity, but the lack of character to say "no more" ... Everyone, in several cases, makes her life a hell on life.The love is never beg. In fact, what may be operating on you is a kind of parasitism. It is a replica of that phenomenon that occurs in nature when an organism lives at the expense of another ... Of course this is much worse, if what we are talking about is love. In short, everything is a matter of self-respect. A matter of dignity and love for what we are and want to be. Why should not "beg for the feelings" and that everything is done under these parameters, always lack of solid and strong roots..

Overall, if you build a ten-story building, but its base and its foundations are weak, sooner or later the building will eventually collapse. One love, when average infidelity and lack of respect for others, will be forgiven ... (?) But not agree pamper, nor ever justify. Although it may sound a bit strong, infidelity is not caused by another person, but for yourself: when, voluntarily decide noticing the wrong person. For example, if you know that person is given to have more than one relationship at a time, and still choose to be with her, one way or another, you are consenting beforehand and endorsing all of your partner's infidelity. So before complaining or fall into a deep depression because your partner is cheating, you should analyze in great detail why you let it. The problem, as such, is not so much the other person, but yourself. What is it that keeps you leave that relationship, rather than remaining in an eternal complaint?

What was said above does not mean that the person is cheating innocent of everything. Definitely not. Certainly, it is primarily responsible, but it is clear that everything that happens in the couple is caused by both parties. Who is unfaithful, he deceives himself. Some say it is cheating, but not unfair, because your partner know you have other relationships. However, this "sincerity" is only apparent, because the infidelity of deception depends not only itself but also the effect it has on the person with whom we maintain a commitment to a greater or lesser extent. This may not be an act of "sincerity", but pure cynicism. Literally, what they do is wash your hands; with hoaxes and tricks, transferred responsibility for their behavior to the other person ..

"It's your decision, you already know how I am," they say with confidence, getting rid of their responsibility treacherously. The unfaithful people are selfish in their essence, playing to destroy their lives and those of others. If the relationship is open and both are adults, ultimately it is your choice. But if there is a situation where one takes advantage of insecurity or other emotional dependency, we are not talking about a symmetrical relationship, but a psychological abuse. Many women and men fall into this trap, as guinea pigs. But a love that allows and even sponsors these things, is not healthy. Moreover, it is not love. If I do not love you and I respect myself, no one will

A pretty face, nice body, nice words, nice touch, loneliness, routine, boredom ... unfortunately, may be more than a million reasons to justify infidelity ... The only certainty is that once that occurs, the couple never again the same. Not all infidelities mean that the couple is not feasible. There are no absolute truths and much less in the field of love. What is certain is that everything depends on the people involved, the circumstances in which the events occur and how partners are able to address them. Finally I ask: Can you overcome infidelity ... Definitely yes or no. But if what precedes is a commitment that disrespect, it will leave a bitter taste in the mouth and will require much of both to stay together.

Infidelity is the responsibility of both the person who is unfaithful, and the person to infidelity. Because, once recognized the act of infidelity, no one is obligated to stay with your partner. And because everyone, so be deep down, always know who is involved and what is involved. Here everyone involved are responsible, to a greater or lesser extent. In this area the whims and immaturity are paid very expensive. Lags in the way of growth, postponements and delays; debts with yourself ... Anyway, infidelity causes great hurt, especially in a person who has been "deceived". But also leaves large footprints on those who deceived: who is unreliable, hardly it achieves trust. So, usually, who he is unfaithful also suffers from fatal jealousy.