Throughout our lives we establish social relations in many areas. Either within the family, fellow students or work, or even with those with whom romantic relationships that ended without rancor, many people who cross our life to share times or moments, but that does not make They must accompany us forever. And, as if we had a kind of Diogenes syndrome with people, we find it hard to let go of those relationships that no longer contribute anything to our lives. Well because that relationship has worn, or even worse, because it has become toxic, we must stop compulsively save friends in Facebook, and start to appreciate who really worth spending our time.

I want to share a list of 7 people we must learn to distance ourselves a little, or even learn to say goodbye forever, without feeling guilty for them:

1) The victimization partner: You no longer know if you because I want to, or because you have become his handkerchief tougher tears. Some people only know to problems take the role of victims, it is those who blame all their disputes to a third party, avoiding all responsibility from bad happens to them. The problem is that this can be translated into victim hood that catching us sadness, frustration and apathy. It is therefore important to learn to stop in time. First we have to tell them to help them make decisions and solve problems, but not for the handkerchief in which to drown his sorrows unsolved. If this does not result, perhaps the best option is to move away, because you're not leaving, you're giving encouragement to act.

2) The brother cheeky: We've all suffered the brother-or family in general, always calling us to ask a favor, call her moving, help with children or provide the tool that you know you will never return, but never is when it is needed, it is people always want something from you, but do not know or do not want to maintain two-way relationships that deliver at least part of what they receive. So we must be the first to leave clear our own needs and not be victimized by those who "pull other without asking if they are right, if they need help, or if it suits them lend it at that time."

3) The friend picky: Whenever all the people you have in common is you skinned, and sometimes even call you by phone only to tell you the latest gaffe someone. You think you do not speak ill of you when speaking with others? While we all tend to gossip at times, be careful with those people who "live to live the lives of others, because not worth them with it and believes that" life is too gray, boring or frustrating to about it, so they destroy everything around them. " Counsel by these people is clear. "Do not let that person make value judgments of others who are not present if you do not want to do the same."

4) The companion bad idea: That coworker who looks at you sideways when you do not do what was in their plans, and you know it as revenge, at some point, some hook you decide, with all its bad idea. In this respect I can tell for sure "is a type of person to be a radical departure," are people living in a constant rage, as if the world owed them something. Do not support others to succeed, effort and willpower, because these attitudes unmeaning overcoming them further. If you do not keep their distance from them will end up suffering emotions such as helplessness, insecurity, helplessness and anxiety.

5) manipulative boss: It may not be your direct supervisor, but that intermediate between you and the "Almighty," you've been lucky enough to be nice, friendly, close and that inspires confidence. Well Watch your back. "Although you feel interested in you and listens to you, you should know that there is a profile of person who saved all the information you give them, in case they need to use it against you. Therefore, you must not forget that it remains a leader and learn how to measure trust, because "in order to get what they want get to pretend feelings, cheat and go around to many situations. What do they want with this? You feel guilty and give in to his credit. They are skilled executioners dressed as victims. "

6) The Platonic and narcissistic love: You've been there for a thousand years being everything you need in the hope of becoming something else. However, every time you're together you realize "only talks about himself, tells you a litany of problems or joys without asking, even once, how about you or was that important operation still you are recovering, "this type of toxic people often do not care about others, because they are more focused on themselves and satisfy their need for care. So, without realizing you have become a mainstay in your life, since you feed your self-esteem, but it you or gives you, and you bring anything, is that this behavior occurs in people who "consider themselves superior and better the rest, so exaggerate their talents and be waiting to envy them and admire them. " Before you away discreetly, to tell him his life to another, you must be careful and patience with his tantrums because they feel recognized not as battle to become the protagonists of your life and conversation.

7) The pessimist companion are people who only see the difficulties of all realizable. Sow doubts and fears, creating insecurities, demotivate and can get to convince you that a few minutes ago you considered very possible, now is clearly the opposite ", an hour, if it is good that there are people who we do see the potential risks taking a certain decision or perform a complicated project, these friendships go beyond. They end up wearing because they give off negativity all see it as a problem, living in fear and never try anything. Do not leave your comfort zone and do not let others do it. So learn to take it into account before considering their opinion or decide that perhaps there are things it's better not to share with him, or I'll take away all your hopes and dreams.