Nothing lasts forever, everything has a purpose. What happens with the highest spheres of life (dreams, intellect, love, etc.), is also reflected in the smaller spheres (material wealth, beauty, fame) who also have an end. Both big and small is just, because everything in life "is rendered" and has an end. Even those material objects, when they turn their cycle, we often generate discouragement and even anger, contrary to what they produce when they are new and newly purchased. This, perhaps, is because we give them a character of evergreen. Certain items including essential quality, as if they were part of our own life or another organ of our body.

The work ends, love ends, the existence comes to an end, because everything, sooner or later, concludes definitively. Everything in life is temporary and resistance to make these things something "eternal" usually causes us great frustrations difficult to beat. Is sensible and healthy emotionally know calling it quits when things or aspects of life are overstretched. . Forcing survive these situations, being almost dying or already dead, it's like mourn over spilled milk ... nothing lasts: not the starry night, or misfortunes, nor wealth; all this then one day flee.

When plastic surgeries are done to cover old age or perform long hours of exercise, not health, but to maintain a youthful figure, we believe in the fantasy of the immortalized flowers and reality of impossible dreams of impossible desires, of useless causes. Because, instead of trying to improve our physical appearance (in some cases it is possible), what we do in the background is deteriorating our dignity and to our status as human beings. Become something like a product sales, merchandising and marketing to meet others.

If something has a chance to be more durable, but not eternal, are the intangible and profound realities. Footprints like good and bad teaching or memories that we printed in the lives of others: what we write every day in the book of our lives and in the book of life of others. Often we complain and to disown a person or certain situations, until these people stop being close, or even die, or until such situations, negative principle, become much worse. It is the comparison that gives us a real insight into what makes us suffer and puts the intensity of our suffering on a scale.

For example, when you complain at all hours of your partner and when you return to being just start value to the smallest detail of that person. Or when you go from living in a humble home full of warmth, to a nicer place, but the atmosphere family's own when we deny a simple flu, like a tragedy, until you get sick with something more serious and you realize that it was nonsense.

When it starts, most of the time, has an aura of novelty and full of hopeful promises. But over time, we begin to see more defects than virtues, both objects and people and situations. Thus, when these realities otherwise end or disappear it happens: you look over the strengths and minimize the defects. Usually this happens when there is nothing to do when the end is near ...

To the extent that we accept and assume that everything that begins must end, we will prevent more than one problem. This is not to plunge into despair, not to fall into cynicism. It is know that there is always time when we have to say goodbye, end and face a duel, it is a great merit to accept things as they are.

Know how to live duels will allow us to heal the wounds left a loss. The live them evade or bad, leaves open wound and even enlarged and infected. Because, as in the case of love, "a nail does not draw another nail". That is, a person is not replaced by another, the overnight. All debts that leave without pay, must be paid at some point. Loss and grief are a constant in our lives. Throughout all our lives we will have to say goodbye many times, people, situations or loved objects. Everything is temporary, nothing lasts forever, not even our own lives. We all know and yet, we design and again the same fantasy of eternity.

Not knowing off, knowing or deciding not say goodbye to something can be quite problematic. Like the opposite: not get involved with anything closely for fear of losing. Maybe if we learn to see more naturally the fact that everything is over, we will enjoy more of this around us here and now, instead of longing for all that when he's gone.