Confucius says: It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness. This is a wise statement about the value of the positivity in our lives. What it really complain or complain? Just to feel bad about ourselves, no one else. If we complain and constantly blame, we are focusing our mind on the negative. Why not look for the positive situations or learning we can get ?. Although we find it difficult, we are able to see anything differently working our emotional intelligence

I tell you from experience the pain, however strong, is made more bearable if one is convinced that time will heal. The worst calamity is tolerable if one believes will happen. The most painful anguish is relieved as soon as the peace is within reach of sight. If we could not live in a situation of pain, it will not automatically we thought, that time will heal our wounds. The bad moments are just that, now. That is the thought that we have in our minds when we are going bad. For some they say that when one door closes, a window opens. Try to be positive, even in bad times, it will help us deeply.

The desire to heal is half of our health. The mind is powerful ... When the sick just thinking that we will cure the disease helps tremendously. It is proven that pessimistic people take much longer to heal than optimistic. Train your mind and turn it into your ally in your best medicine.

If every day we wake up with clear ideas, so that we are the ones we handle and manage our own circumstances, we feel that everything goes better. The point is that if the circumstances are not ideal, we must build, invent and reinvent. We're the ones that we will look for opportunities for people who work well in this world are those who get up in the morning to look for the circumstances they want, and if they do not find invent. They say a picture is worth a thousand words, but sometimes does not have to be this way ... There are words that come straight to the heart as heavy darts that move us, transport us to the past, we projected into the future or we return lost illusions.

It is true that each of us is different and create reality in our own way. Each of us has their own beliefs, their own opinions and that certainly makes us unique and different feel. It is impossible to live according to the beliefs of others at all times and be consistent with our thoughts and our actions. Putting it in a clear and honest way to others, show our point of view while respecting his, us away from internal conflicting thoughts. Humans believe in what we believe, what we like to believe, which supports our views and what stirs our passions.

Undoubtedly, our relationship with others, determines our lives. Together with other people we live better, worse, unrepeatable ... and those moments moments, born almost eternal links sometimes weaken although other to give way to form new ones. Humans are to complement each other, for better or for worse. That's life, a relationship of relationships. The secret of humanity is the link between people and events. People cause events and happenings are people.

Be consistent, patient and persevere in the effort, builds the strength to keep walking toward our dreams. Although often become disturbed us and think that person has been luckier than us with half the effort, we must never stop believing in the effort. Behind great people, great efforts there.