builders of happiness
Publicado por Patricio Varsariah el miércoles, diciembre 2, 2015

It is often said that good friends are known in bad times. However, another key moment where also appreciate his sincerity is when luck embraces us, when we reach our desires. If the person shows a sincere joy and share your excitement, ever lose that connection. I do not desire your happiness, I do not envy your success or your achievements. I celebrate your victories as if they were my own and my heart beats with your same joys and sorrows. So I'll wish every day of my life that everything good with you.
The phrase "I want to be happy but no more than I" do not always contains in itself a negative connotation, denoting or even less, someone feel pleased bad things happen to us.
This feeling is sensed at times a loss of control. Consider these mothers or toxic families. When a son reaches its happiness with a partner, that aspect would mean in fact a great joy, is seen as a "clear threat". They lose control over us. Sometimes what is given is a breach of similarity. You may count on friends sharing, for example, your own work situation. When you get promoted or find a better job, that equality before joining you is broken, and had built a very specific type of link. There are times that to achieve happiness of having to make changes in our lives, and even set new priorities. Because at the end of the life it is a journey of constant renewal where suddenly, something outside of us asking us to respond with an internal renewal.
I wish today I pass everything and everything is good. There are people who wish us often that of "I hope you're happy," but somehow, almost without admitting, that is sensed another, "but no more than me." It is as if a lot of people a little uneasy to see how other people reach everything good as they see themselves stranded, sunk in everyday life, and above all, unable to rejoice in the happiness of others. Happy and genuine people are those able to give credit to others, and rejoice in all the good that happens to them as if they lived in their own skin.
If there is anything that characterizes each of us is that we are inveterate seekers of happiness. We set projects, we feed on dreams, we hope and build expectations. And perhaps because of that, more than one is suspicious that others reach that cherished welfare "before them". Keeping this idea is to approach life from a clearly incorrect perspective.
We should not be seekers of happiness, but happiness builders. Therefore, something that helps us to create almost every day is taking all the good that surrounds us and in turn, what they transmit live and others.
The selfish heart and a closed mind is incapable of appreciating the happiness of others, only charge your inner fears and jealousies. Rarely they will be able to enjoy the small details where these everyday strokes actually true happiness is enclosed. Celebrate the happiness of others and the good of others is not a chimera, people seek happiness as drunkards seeking their homes. In groped and stumbled, knowing that we have but to remember where it is. Actually, it is complex, and more so for happiness outside, everything good that happens to others and not to us.
Rejoice in all the good that others live is a chimera, many do so because they feel. Because happiness is transmitted and shared, because the true hearts enjoy watching the welfare of others. He was pleased to see the happiness and in turn, for wishing good syrup every day to people who want it, offers tranquility and balance to our soul, our essence as a person. Happiness is not a state, it is not something we achieve or others get. Happiness is harvested every day and appreciated from the depth of hearts they know meet, understand. See how good you have other people is do not give merit for ourselves. Nobility identify who is actually employed, the houses inside.
Some welcomes the welfare of others as one who praises their good intentions, however, in their most private corners of what is actually feel some envy, some personal gaps and strong dissatisfaction. Celebrate the happiness of others is knowing how to share, it is to keep the internal balance where one exalts the simple joy of life and the beauty of life itself. I'm sure at some point in your life cycle you've perceived as people who you thought loved you, did not seem to be pleased when you reached certain achievements. When life gave you something good that truly deserved.
Never fail to meet all the good that brings you everyday with its wonderful coincidences, celebrating the happiness of others like yours because love is the only thing that grows when shared with sincerity.