In our society we are educated and they convey the courage to love and respect others, which is undoubtedly essential. However, it is rare that we instill the need to love ourselves. Sometimes not seen with good eyes prioritize, and even have a child say that sometimes certain reactions, relate to an act of childish selfishness. Self-love, just thinking that I am the love of my life, is not an act of selfishness. Not since the time that this dimension is focused on building and protecting our self-esteem.

No one wants itself because it is considered better than anyone, or best merits, or more rights. We want to protect ourselves, to know ourselves better, so that nothing and nobody manipulate us, to know what we want and what is not. Self-love is a feeling that should not be ashamed. This is not only a tool for internal being, it is to maintain a balance with which, empathy and respect others. I am me. You are you. I am not in this world to fulfill your expectations. You are not in this world to meet mine ... this writer a few days ago and it's good to always remember. They whatever the circumstances that led us to forget that the pillar of our lives ourselves, it is never too late to recover this mooring. This inner strength with which, again our balance to be happy, and to offer comfort to those we love. Those who really deserve it.

I'm beginning to suspect that the love of my life is me. And say it out loud is no act of selfishness or pride, it is a reflection that we should internalize every day and who starts his morning with a good cup of coffee. It not selfish who attends, who resolves his fears and heals his wounds, who leaves behind what hurt you to meet tomorrow with optimism and strength. Because if I'm right, I'll be able to give the best of myself to others. I will be able to be happy and give happiness. I need to be better than anyone, I need to have what you have. I just spare me to be myself, to be the love of my life to offer the best living in my soul calm, serene in my heart devoid of hatred or rancor.

Although surprised us, it is not easy to reach this state where one is able to love yourself fully and without limitations. Somehow, we are almost used to prioritize not only the needs of others, but many times we "cling" to things as if they were our unique identity: a job, a house, money ... There are many dimensions that are covering us layer after a shell layer which gradually lose the essence that is self-love. Because we must never forget that if you are well, the world is going well. If your thoughts, your emotions if not vibrate with that inner harmony is respect for yourself, your reality will be distorted. Today in our space we invite you to reflect on it.

Maybe sometime you will come to forget that the love of your life was you, because prioritize others too. Or you can, you never knew, that from your childhood you projected on insecurity and values ​​which will never prioritized as a person. There comes a time when we need to let go of things, people, situations ... Some will call it selfishness, but I call it self. Having self-love is not something that is taught in schools, in fact, is an aspect that we all go slowly discovering who finds a gun and power which no one had spoken to him before. Why does this happen often?

As you walk in the paths of your life, you will find that what matters is not how many things you have, but you're worth ... I invite you to take note of a number of aspect on which I have reflected and helped me to understand and discover what which it is important in my life. Take a breath and think about them carefully, remembering without hesitation that indeed the love of your life is you.

Keep an internal dialogue: what aspects and analyzes everyday situations violate your self-esteem, and you away from who you really are. Maybe you should leave certain things, and even some specific relationships. Empathize with yourself: I am sure that empathize with anyone who you see before you.

You understand their situation, their pain, their needs ... but what about yours? What do you say to yourself you were before you? You are authentic / or unique / or unrepeatable. It is not a slogan, not a phrase. It is a reality that must start believing from today. You have virtues, characteristics and essence that make you unique in this world, and therefore important.

Dare to love and devote yourself what you deserve, because love yourself / or not at all stop loving others. It is recognize you and make you happy, because when you start to be happy, get the best things in life.