A reason to be

Publicado por Patricio Varsariah el jueves, diciembre 10, 2015

We all go through situations in life that cause us pain and we do not know how to deal with, but there is no formula that works every time, but we must accept that suffering is part of life. It is said that those who have something to live for, is able to endure any how. The lessons that can contribute after living extreme situations in my life and I could overcome want to share with you to make you see life from another perspective and to motivate them every day. These are some of the lessons I learned from those moments of suffering: The difference between a person who knows how to overcome their problems and face adversity in life and a person who fails this improvement is that the former is a person who decides , who chooses to be one thing or another, despite the conditions as he lives.

Life has meaning under all circumstances, I can say that in this sense of despair is like a mathematical operation. Hopelessness equals suffering without purpose. If a person can not find meaning in their suffering, you will tend to despair. But if the person is able to find meaning in adversity, you can turn your tragedy into an achievement, a way of overcoming. The love of self is the starting point for the growth of the person who feels the courage to take responsibility for their own existence.

Your daily actions they take to be the best version of yourself? That is a question we must ask every day to know who we are and who we want to be, in order to become the best version of ourselves, to show how extraordinary it is in each and that others can see and appreciate it. Think about why or by whom it is worth living. We all have a why or by whom live, a reason that keeps us going each day, that motivates us and gives meaning to every second of our existence, at every step or every action we take. How we react to conditions that can not be changed, it depends on us.

If we are powerless to change the situation, we can always choose our attitude to that situation. That is, there is something within us that we can change how we feel, there is always a part of ourselves that depends only on us. Never mind that we do not expect anything from life, but if life expects something from us. Think about what you bring to life what life expected of you, because our life constantly challenges us and demands. What we must ask is what can we do to change our lives, what we bring to the world and react accordingly.

Adversity and suffering exist. Everything bad in our lives is something that exists and we must accept. A tension between what has already been achieved and what still remains to be achieved is created. No need to live without setbacks, but know that they will exist, which are part of life and that we must fight for something worthwhile, make sense. Being what we are and become what we are capable of being the only purpose of life.

No one is indispensable, but we are all irreplaceable. When it is accepted that it is impossible to replace a person, the responsibility that man takes to manifest their existence. A man becomes aware that he expected a home, or a person who has an unfinished work, taking responsibility and knows why, the meaning of life. Man's interest is not to find pleasure or avoid pain, but to find the meaning of life. Even in moments when we suffer, we must find meaning in that suffering.

Nobody can get in your place and suffer for you, so your only chance is the attitude you adopt to suffering. We all have a reason, but sometimes we are not aware of that reason.

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I do not know where in the world you will not even know if you exist. But I am excited to think that at some point someone will open your computer and come here to these letters. He read it and know that it is written for: Man or woman, young or old ... so what? I write these lines to someone who knows what it is to feel alone or lonely. These cards are for someone who needs a hug or afraid. A person who has seen some morning clear their mistakes and their consequences. Someone in the desire to be otherwise always stumble on the same stone, that surprises us because it is part of what we really are, even if not suspect. I write to discover who frequently excited / or with the heart spinning like a pinwheel wish but this hopeful recognize where the wind comes from.

Someone well understood that some days the world is very short and others imprisons his shadow, know also comprise heavy and leaden days when we are stuck, without direction or course and we need someone on our side grip the wheel. It is recognized in that effort rowing, paddling and rowing again until land appears on the horizon. These charts are for those who feel all that and more but do not dare leave the soul to hear those rhythms in samba.

You see, friend, stranger still, I was thinking how beautiful it would be that everyone else would have written a letter or a poem dedicated, inspired by it, created by its mere existence. And that all people sense that someone else would be remembered with affection, and not the most beautiful thing you have shown, but still having taught the monster that also house. The reason for these cards is you. You will not be one / or those who refer this following saying: "NOBODY IS MORE THAN ONE WHO ALONE HAS NEVER RECEIVED A LETTER"

My goal: to live is to live with all illusion, as high-flying balloon. Spotting the view from the top, appreciating the beauty beneath my feet, carefully observing everything my way, so no one hurt me. Just so I can feel free, like the moon loves the sea, and the air in your eyes, as the land under the sun. My dream is a world of feelings, the sorrows, laughing, crying, smiles, is the most certain way.