.... change is not always for the worse

Publicado por Patricio Varsariah el sábado, noviembre 15, 2014

In general, people are afraid of the bad changes, those things that affect your life negatively. The question then is how removed the fear of change. First you have to understand that life has ups and downs, good and bad cycles, and nobody can be always going up simply because it's impossible. Even people we most admire experiencing low that gives us life, no one can avoid.

However, the most important thing is not how to avoid changes, fears and bad experiences, but learning from them. You should not let you exceed the problems but you have to know to use them in your favour.

There is no doubt that the problems affecting us, which is normal due to the fact that we have feelings but every difficult moment of our lives should make us stronger. Experts suggest that we should always analyseand reflect on the bad situations you had during your life. Try to learn from your mistakes because they will help you be prepared for changes or unpleasant situations that arise in the future.

There are many ancient beliefs that consider each episode in our life happens for a predetermined ratio. They also think that life somehow prepares us for the coming events so that if we focus intently on our previous experience of this will understand many things.

The same is also true that the unexpected can happen any time. You should keep in mind that change is not always for the worse and consequently should never miss an opportunity just because you're afraid to risk. Remember that, from time to time, something has to happen to break free from the monotony so I should not be surprised if, at some point, instead of being afraid of change, you want with all your heart.

If you find it hard to know what specific change means in your life, try to think only about the positive impacts that will occur after the change. Notice how important and ponders how to multiply, adding other positive aspects that need help on your part.

Always good to pretend that someone else is in your situation because we see ourselves in a worse position always seems more dramatic than it is. If you realize that the other person can manage change and find solutions, surely you can too. You can be sure of that.

Imagine the worst situation that can then be the change. Now try to find several solutions. Meditate on how you can lose if the worst should happen and how important are these things to you. If you find more than one reasonable solution, mean that change can not be stronger than you.

Change is an important part of life. It's inevitable. Even more dramatic are opportunities to know and see that we can always go further.

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