How often having nothing, we tried everything without expecting anything still have hope. Sometimes we realize that we have emptied our life to be with our family and yet we feel bad for that reason, because if the couple breaks everything can be bad for our feelings.
            
We share life with the same person, always being accompanied and logically relations have to be much larger, but despite enrich all these aspects are not purely needed for a real relationship.
            
Keep in mind that it is always important to forgive those faults without any doubt, so we can get back on track to reach fruition. Forgiveness involves trust in people, getting help each other, while recognizing that it is a difficult task to regain trust.

When we start any relationship, of course we think that everything will be fine. At least that is the purpose with which we undertake. But what about us? Is that we have not prepared well, or perhaps fear, considering this as the prelude to the finish we desire. Mastering this situation will make us better visualize the target and think of a perfect finished. Generally people who do not aspire to have happy endings, usually stay half, since life itself will a fault them, they will not get them to the finish that dream.
            
It's nothing new to accept your partner as it is, with its flaws and virtues, is not easy. It is possible that both documents are behaviors that are not to our liking. I understand that we have every right to ask them to change, but if we insist that should change immediately, it may not be admissible that attitude, because the situation get worse. Consider the least possible problems is the only way to solve them.
           
Few couples who decide to change if somehow they are required to do so eventually everything becomes reproaches and especially misunderstandings. Most often these faults, make it to a huff, settling between behavior that is achieved in the end reach a state of tension by not accepting the differences. Ie we can accept your partner if we fail in some of our behaviors, but do not establish relations of dependence, only then we shall achieve lives of independence and selfishness.
          
Also usually occurs the couple ends up living in the monotony and logically is lost illusion. The beauty of married life is that if both want and not have to fall into boredom. Maintain that illusion is a "work" that the only thing required is to think that the couple worth and take care as anything we like caring, pamper and treat you with affection. Everything not careful, crashes, and the couple is no different.
          
You may not get control our emotions or feelings, although we are always free to choose how to avoid these discords, and for that we just have to decide what kind of relationships that people demand to have our side to avoid such errors.