It is said that the best thing is to be happy "to have bad memory." There is some truth in it, for several fields of psychology is consistent in pointing out that if you think the future looks anxiety and if you think of the past appear depression. But what about the happy memories ?. We have all experienced the paradox of happy moments and remember that invades us feel a deep sadness, born of the feeling that what was is far from back to being. In those moments when we share our voice is tarnished with a residue of nostalgia, like the echo of a time taken that would, at least for a while, without thinking too much.

So, put our mental time machine, albeit to a place where something happened that we keep with care, can disturb our mood. Even the punishment that brought us after making a good prank seems now, in light of our mind, something enjoyable and joyful. So, the good memories numb and bad scarring. Sometimes the happy memories are the most difficult to overcome.

The error remember thinking that we remain the same. Sometimes we strive to reminisce convincing us that they have not changed so much. We remain the same, collecting debts wrinkles and can even assume. Sometimes we remember as the only way to feel good, to distract or to talk a while with someone who already left us, saying or not saying goodbye, with an explanation or not. The fact is that good always found a lament for the final, when this seems more or definitive. The mistake is to look at what happened yesterday with today's eyes, wanting to get things back to be the same when you are no longer the same, as if they could recycle sighs same kiss or give a second time. Dumb Do not Cry, the deaf do not see the music, with the five letters written later can not write now, love was, that would never return.

You can not clone a same experience. Many of the experiences we are so beautiful because they were a final. Perhaps it is true that we have to assume that that time was the most wonderful, that we are right and to reserve a place in the soul. It is the first step to be part of a very special profession, a profession with a great future, the creator of wonderful times. Happy memories always remain if we leave them in peace. Desires are good memories that carry forward. We want to build in our lives that special feeling that one day in the past we seized mind, body and spirit. Built memory recall details that we could not integrate at the time. There is no greater pain than to recall in misery the time when we were happy.

The truth is that it can be much harder to remember a happy moment you sad when you're wrong. The sad memory gives you the reason that there were always reasons in your life so you find unfortunate. The good memories makes you think, "I'll be wasting the best years of my life not to feel what I remember today as my best stay in this world?". Scar hurts bad memory, you can make you feel anger or rage. Good scar bleeding because it evokes memories, sadness and melancholy, better times. There are memories of those who fell in love. Flights of our lives that are filled with invented details that are in line with the general feeling of that time, enhancing it in our memory. It's like a love that does not evolve and remain eternally in the first phase of idealization.

The best thing is to break this aura confront reality. Not with the reality of that moment, of course you will not be able to return to it, but with people who shared this moment with you and can give you a more realistic view of what happened and how you felt. When you integrate the memory as a whole and bring you stop calling you with romantic movie ... . notice that nothing happens to us is absolutely good or bad, but contains nuances. I am aware of these edges, just as you are of everything positive. That once you have experienced it encourages repeat with different people and in different ways because the sweet taste something really good and we are ready to learn to appreciate again. Miscalculation away from your face to the past and open your eyes in the eyes of the new road that appears before you.

Realistic looking eyes, the happy memories do not cease to be away from you but the feeling that everything good is over. Thus, they stop being happy memories and scars will become traces of what you experienced, and comfortable to walk on wet sand. Like the feeling of those tracks and also they allow you to walk to another place so pleasant.