In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. I do not get anything good about who does not know to praise or encourage. The exaggerations bored me and I have difficulty in accepting those who do not like animals. And above all I no longer have any patience for those who do not deserve my patience. What a pleasure that matter to me only that I care.


I have no patience for some things, not because I have become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with that displeases or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, criticism and excessive demands of any nature. Long ago I lost the will to please who does not like, to love who does not love me and smile for those who do not want to smile. I do not spend a minute who lies or want to manipulate. I decided not to live more with pretense, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not get tolerate selective scholarship and academic haughtiness. I hate conflicts and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and why people avoid rigid and inflexible character.

When I imported some people and not others, it is because I have learned to be skillful to detect frauds or liars. My time gains in quality and meaning. No half measures, communication flowing and my heart is filled with good things. I have learned to be in the situation no longer expect a call or take a message does not come back. I'm not anxious about what might happen, or decentralized in everything I do. I do not spend whole days sad or resolving misunderstandings, for discussions not finished working out, they are also "the daily bread". There is no more room for anxiety. My body and mind are tired of the games, riddles and stress when they are my feelings through me are no longer funny. I'm exhausted leave me how those people without energy. I need that energy to laugh, to do things that excite me and to those who love me. The emotional Russian roulette with my patience has run out.

When I look back and I realize the time I have lost fighting for approval, friendship or love other people I find that time is money, that life goes by so fast and I never want to waste a minute more acting that way. At first I was hurt or angry for allowing that to happen, but I've also gained in maturity and progressively, which would be a bitter oblivion becomes indifferent oblivion that has nothing more to tell me what just happened.

I'm really getting to know other people and increasingly improved more about my aim or the time I need to know if they are worth or simply want to take advantage of my person and the situation. Forgetfulness are getting shorter, the steps are closed with slam but not with anger, indifference back again into my life and is becoming more enjoyable because it fits everything I want.

If something does not bring me laughter, it is not useful, beautiful or not give me love ... why keep a place? That place must be reserved for other people who do deserve it because I care about me and hurt is the last thing would. It is a pleasure to meet someone to make plans and not be thinking about what to do or what to say or try to please you more attention. It is a real pleasure because suddenly you care what happens around you and not what goes through your head over and over again. It is a pleasure to smile you, they ask you how you are, you do not want to start talking before you have finished counting not that important to you. It is a pleasure even when they are tired, they can smile at and look into your eyes even if they are tainted by tiredness, as if they could not say goodbye to you knowing that you're really good.

It is a pleasure to joke and that others follow them and are not absorbed all the time, it seems as if they could be somewhere else by passing best. It is a pleasure to make you compliments, they tell you that you have missed and when shall return to see you. Embrace you, they tell you they love you. No matter you write only a few minutes ago that you say good by. They do not measure the love they are giving and not invent a strategy of how it should be your relationship ... But most important is to do this when really matters and not just when they have realized that they must change when you have already lost . That is the most important. Give and take in the now is always the pleasure of importing only me who I care.