... make room for feelings
Publicado por Patricio Varsariah el miércoles, noviembre 26, 2014

The occult occult is obvious, and that is where you should pay attention. True freedom is in this very reason, make your life a mere enjoyment at all times. Negative feelings function as a thermometer, tell us that something is wrong and manifest in the form of discomfort. But have its positive side: educate, let evolve and generate learning. If you do not feel frustrated, just would not give value to the effort when it succeeds. Insecurity also makes evolutionary sense, protects you from threats, although many of them are not as scary as imagined.
Now, leave room for feelings and when the patient considers who have lived with it long enough, you open the door and let them go. Now, how negative feelings can get to block us unless we give them the place they should occupy.To walk this week with positive feelings. Everyone has different goals, but all desire happiness, inner balance, peace and tranquility. The welfare circumstances surrounding us, colleagues and moments that bring us happiness is sought.
Many people leave out of your comfort zone to avoid facing their fears, but that feeling is part of our evolution, I know there dosificiarlo to do its job and not let us crash. Everything has a purpose and a logical explanation. Negative feelings tell us that something is wrong, educate, let evolve and generate learning. For example, if I felt no guilt, how would I know that you've hurt someone? Leave room for your feelings, let you see the world from another point of view, but have you cripple. Analyze, make a positive reading, take what you can contribute and, if it considers that they have lived with you long enough, let them go. and Dare to be happy!
Guilt is one of the most immobilizing and destructive emotions we can experience, which usually appears in the odd moment of our lives. Some people have a kind of vocation by guilt because not only feel bad about what they have done but even so it might do. Obviously, this is not a pleasant feeling and would do anything to get rid of it.
Guilt is considered as a negative emotion that while no one likes to experience, the truth is that it is necessary for proper adaptation to our environment. Blame it as a painful affection arises from the belief or feeling of having crossed the personal or social ethical standards especially if someone has been harmed. Guilt, therefore, arises from a fault that we made (or so we think). Its function is to make aware the subject who has done something wrong to facilitate repair attempts. Its origin is related to the development of moral consciousness, which begins in childhood and is influenced by our individual differences and educational guidelines.
There are people who confuse this emotion with shame, increasing their emotional distress as the mixed feelings both feed off each other. While the fault appears before the pain caused by damage, embarrassment experienced when we perceive a lack of skill or ability should be presumed. Guilt is one of the biggest problems that invade our lives. From small we stun him, showing that we are not free and that everything we do affects the lives of others, even if what we do is truly ours. We are taught to understand life based on duties and responsibilities. We are not educated to be free but to rely on others in an unhealthy way. All this feeds a vicious circle of misery where individual happiness seems unimportant.
While living in society must all put our bit to keep orderly existence, sometimes confuse harmony with submission. If something hurts us as individuals must work to eliminate it from our lives, even if solving that requires that we break a relationship with another person. Harming others is inevitable because everyone perceives the world in their own way, but when the damage was not the aim of our actions, but the search for our own freedom, what can really be the problem?
In religious education guilt is a weapon of manipulation that gets that many individuals, having left the church long ago, continue to suffer the anguish and the suffocation caused by guilt. The moral guilt is central to "force" the faithful to act the way in which the Church believes that everyone should act instead; to do so, the individual will be doomed to a life of psychological torture that could lead to developing a deep sadness and inability to fight for their own desires.