Today the second day of a new year, my thoughts thinking this thought comes to me that at some point in your life, just came to their minds, and we come to life without asking. Each is a reality, not always pleasant or easy to carry: a country, a culture, a family with features, an identity and a life plan ahead. Some earlier, some later, we are touched by suffering, whether physical moral. It comes unexpectedly, has a thousand different faces: a betrayed friendship, a painful disease, a professional failure, difficult character proper to cope ... but there is no suffering big enough that achieves boot of the human heart infinity to be happy desire.


So every day life adventure in hopes of reaching a small triumph is undertaken. We are beings to succeed. And although often tried the bitter taste of defeat, human beings crave win. The win is the goal of human actions. Millionaires, famous, beautiful models, there are many, and it seems that more and more, but everyone is happy? Their eyes often reveal coldness. If they have triumphed why only smile when they see them, and solitude silent and avoid the same look?


They have conquered showy triumphs: the fame, power, money ... but as they are colorful, well leave empty life, and dry soul. Is that everything in life? If we are made to triumph What is really the Triunfo, in capital letters, we all crave? I think that is the opposite of what habituate. Happiness is the expected reward, and the road leading to it is the same for all: learn to love and be loved. Do not look for splitting hairs. Paths are many, but only one makes us happy. Love, mainly exercised when fighting to be the one who wins, then ... I also won. It is the opposite of any cheap dialectical schema. We won both, if I help you to win even more and better than me.
        
Our society needs to restore faith in love. From time to sell temporary marriages, divorce, eliminating clogging, sexuality closed to life, pleasure and goal of existence, violence as a means of imposing ... men and women of our time are left to believe that love exists, that fidelity is possible to earn more, who else loves otherwise, frustration and sadness safe. It succeeds in life when you love. We have to believe in love not to die of sadness. 


Everyone eagle wings to fly high, although we do believe that we range hens. The flight is undertaken when it is committed to the good of others. No heroics are needed, but do heroic everyday, loving in the concrete. Giving a seat in someone else tired I bus, smile to say good morning every morning in the office, listen carefully to who tell me their problems, invite a coffee having a cold, or give himself welcome time for loved ones to do ... what they want. Love is not complicated. It is available to everyone.
        
The media do not talk about all reality, but there is much love in the world, although it is sold as a sensation. There are love marriages after 60 years together, men supporting his wife in search of a good professional working women who praise her husband when educating their children, and children who get up early so their parents find prepared the breakfast. Since faith in the love of happiness.

Sometimes it only takes one begins, so that others stop living the scheme of "I win if you lose", and decide to choose the "I win only if you win". When you love, you will always win and gain all. Amar it might not be profitable economically produce physical and emotional exhaustion, which complicates life and were quite long, but gives peace of conscience, makes us happy, allows us to live in a habitual state of optimism, draw a sincere smile our lips and eyes light up with a new shine, for everything that is not given is lost. Triumphs in life, who defeats the I that earn you. Triumphs in life, who believes in love and dare to live it, with all its consequences.