We will have the destiny we have earned us ..? Today I will write about that temptation to award to the "destination" some of our achievements and our failures. Nothing is easier than to blame the fate of what happens to us and let us pass. It is an almost magic formula that explains everything and justifies everything. Phrases like "If fate wants it, we will meet again" or "Fate prevented that everything went well" are often used. To think that everything is written in advance is something that comes to mind when we find seemingly random coincidences or situations that determine important aspects of our life.The problem is that if we accept that there is a fixed destination, virtually everything We do not make sense. For as will happen whatever we do, we free ourselves of our responsibility.

Maybe you as much as I we have ever wondered: What is the fate ?. If we refer to the strictly literal, the word simply means a destination point of arrival. The place where we are going or the end of a journey. However, the target has been defined in many ways. Philosophy, mythology, religion and esoteric beliefs have awarded various values: For philosophy, fate has to do with the theory of causation. Everything that happens has a cause that genera.Para Greek and Roman mythology, was the personification of a goddess who had the power to determine everything, even what should happen to other gods. For religions, it is also a divine arrangement. In Hinduism, an effect of karma. In the Christian and Muslim religions, the will of providence. For the esoteric, the destination is a reality imposed by the influences of the stars, or, on other occasions, an amalgam between the concept of karma and divine provision.

The truth is that, as always, men have raised questions about the fate: "Where am I going?", "Where should I go?", "Why term of not getting to the point I set? "The question of the fate is the question of the meaning of our life. Hence, it is a constant concern, which has traveled throughout our history as human beings. Destiny is not a matter of chance but of choice.The destiny is not written in the stars, wind and earth. The destiny is not written in the stars, the wind or the earth. Our future can only be planted, watered, cared for and picked up by ourselves. So it's better stop thinking of letting go is the wind that sways you, it is not, because you're the only pattern of your boat.

We should not think that destiny is something inert, immovable and quiet. We should not be victims of ancient beliefs that blame great and omnipotent deities of everything as it happens. There is a being of immense power that decides for us. It is our heart that takes the paths to follow, and our feet who move through them. The concept of "destination", understood as predestination would not have survived for so many centuries, if not useful. And what it is useful. Through the word "target" can be explained and understood, at least in appearance, most complex life situations. Destination concept serves, inter alia, to:

It lets understand adversity as an unavoidable reality, which may well be the result of a punishment for our evil deeds, or proof that, if passed, will then be rewarded. It allows you to associate success with a strong element of luck. The "good" comes to our life because our star is shining. It allows depositing the responsibility for what happens in others we ourselves forces. This avoids possible guilt or eventually make the necessary efforts to get where we want. What responsibility? .What Troubling to accept that there is predestination, or destiny written by a superior force, it is to give up control over your own life. At first it is only a belief, but eventually becomes a whole lifestyle.

With hardly notice it, you begin to see your suffering as an intractable reality. You install on the idea that it is not possible to turn around what happens to you. In fact, your thinking does not produce ideas for change and feel that all doors are closed. Same with success. A real triumph comes not from a fortuitous, but a long and patient work situation. But if you believe in destiny, you're busier looking for some good luck factor, rather than a method to advance. If the destination exists, why would not exist prisons. How could someone try to steal or kill, if such acts did not depend on him, but something that was already written ?. Actually, everyone builds his own destiny. Although there are factors beyond individual control, there are always alternatives to act against the same situation. Accept that everything is written in advance is to give up freedom and life itself.