It's a phrase that I read on occasion and perhaps you also have either heard or read and is as follows: "Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself." Change is a constant in human life but sometimes we resist it. It's actually the only constant. But often the real problem is not change, but the lack of knowledge of ourselves what limits us. When the time to talk about oneself is not always clear what we can do and how far we can get. Although it may seem easy to answer this question, as you try it you'll realize you do not really know you so well.

We ask ourselves: What are our weaknesses ?. If you recognize the skills is a difficult task, see and accept the weaknesses is even more complex. The majority finds it hard to accept that it has weaknesses, but is the most important step to change. Go to a quiet place to find these defects as strong ... Every weakness gives you a key to what to do and where you want to go. No change strategy can be effective if you're not sure what you want to change and what aspects need more amount of effort and perseverance. It is often said that men are ruled by their imaginations, but would not be true to say that are governed by the weakness of his imagination. "

What we do in our spare time says a lot about who we are as people. Some enjoy reading a good book, others prefer to go to exercise and others, enjoy gossiping or criticizing. What you occupy your free time ?. Every hobby or pastime but also defines you can give vital clues where to start to change. Examine your hobbies and see if you make happy or perform only do something. Would you rather be doing something else?

Life is too difficult for herself to live without passion.

What are the things that make you shudder and go when you want to leave everything? There must be something that motivates you to continue and if not, look for it.

Never too late to discover what we love.

It can be anything. For some people it comes to rescuing animals, while others are passionate about the sport or art. Begin exploring options until you find one that makes you get up every morning to change and achieve what you want. Without passion, man is only a latent force that expects a possibility, as the shock of the iron flint to launch sparks of light.

We all have some skill that can help improve the world. No need to be a hero and save the world. Small actions can change and improve what surrounds you. You may think you can not do anything, but this is not entirely true. Think and find a way to help. Perhaps you are giving some company to someone in need or as part of a storytelling organization for abandoned children .... Explore your abilities and needs around you and find a way. For you it may seem like small acts, but those on the other side will value the truth.

It is important to be motivated to change. When left reason is easy to leave things half or not take the initial step. Stop for a moment and think about things or people that arouse you. They may be your children, your parents, or someone educate pet. No matter who always try there. They can also motivate ideas or habits. The reason to know what motivates you is that the only way you can improve. Some people are toxic and the same goes for preconceived ideas. When you know your motivators you can evaluate them and turn to the right path. But do not forget that the most important motivator is yourself. It's never too late to become the person you could have been. "

Change is never easy. Take the opportunity to move forward as a person. But do not expect immediate results, most of the time a nice change requires time and effort. Cultivate patience, motivation and persistence. Wrap up of strength and determination to get what you want. I assure you that if you put effort and go for it, at some point you'll get. Do not stay in one place or with one person out of habit changes.